Success means different things to different people. We all have moments of triumph in our daily lives. Sometimes just getting up in the morning is a major success. Sometimes success is finally being able to grieve for what we've lost. Sometimes success is finding joy, getting strong, or letting go. Sometimes success is finding a quiet place inside and listening.
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"I was waffling and in denial for so long. I didn't want to leave. It felt like I would be the one abandoning him and giving up on our future. After I started learning about pornography addiction and recovery I knew he wasn't doing what it would take to really get better and all my threats and tears weren't helping. I sat him down (again) and gave him a choice, but this time I knew what needed to happen and how we could get it done. I was able to be calm and caring but very firm. He decided to leave, and I was devastated, but I know we couldn't have gone on treading water forever. I am stronger now, and thankfully I can start my own healing."
"I love my husband, but I know that when it comes to pornography love can't be blind. There was a moment when we just had to take a long hard look at everything and how much we wanted change. It was tough! I'm so happy we faced this together, learned as much as we could, and are working hard and making sacrifices. I am so very proud of what we've accomplished and the relationship we've built. Even with so may painful moments, it was definitely worth the price."